It is so amazing the way God never forces His will on us. He gently requests that we trust Him...and He holds out the promise of ultimate fulfillment if we are willing to live our lives the way He asks. I am only beginning to discover just exactly what this means. These are my two main businesses:

1) I specialize in solving unique and complex mortgage related problems for individuals and businesses via attorney-led modifications and/or conventional financing.

Additional services include a Distressed Home Program. This program is designed to help people who are facing foreclosure avoid extreme credit damage. The solution is achieved by negotiating a short sale directly with the lender free of charge to the home-owner.

2) INTERACTIVE By Design is a State of Oregon Non-Profit Corporation.

We focus on the vertically integrated development of Christian music: Writing, Arranging, Recording, and Performing is included. HD Music Videos are produced from select works.

I am looking for the right person. This person will not have any children currently, and will not have been married before. So many of you ask if this search is something I am serious about. The answer? Yes it is. Oh, by the way, I am expecting to live over a hundred years. 😉

Ladies, please do not be offended or upset if you do not hear from me. So many of you have been attempting to communicate that it is a bit overwhelming. Thank you for all the wonderful messages offering companionship in many forms. Your sentiments are very touching. If it was possible to keep all of you I would! It will however only take one woman to fill my heart.

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There are a few areas that bother me specifically:

1) I do not appreciate tattoos. If you have one, please do not contact me.

2) It has been brought to my attention by a number of women on this site that they are pressured by operators to dress in extremely revealing clothing in order to attract the attention of men such as myself. I would like to inform anyone who reads this that the opposite is in fact true.

If your photographic presentation is showing cleavage, underwear, bikinis, extremely short mini skirts, or extremely tight clothing in general I will be deleting your correspondence without even reading it. I am looking for a conservative woman who my own mother would be proud of.

If you are dressing like a prostitute, no man will take you home to meet his mother. This is true the world over, no matter what site operators, your friends, tasteless photographers, men you know, or anyone else is leading you to believe. Many men might like looking at you briefly, but they will not marry you if you use the lack of decent clothing to attract their carnal attention.

Attract the right man with the quality of your character, the way you prepare for an international relationship ahead of time (like learning English), dressing with decency, and so forth. Being in shape is important, but let's not forget that marriage is for a lifetime. Your body will only last less than half that time. What remains is who you are. Let that be what is used to attract the man you are seeking, not the fact you chose to parade around naked. I for one will not even give you the time of day if the clothes you have on in your pictures would not be appropriate at church on Sunday.